5 Things a Father Can Do Today to Reconnect with His Kids - Black ...

Fathers, adolescence is a critical time for your children's development. Studies indicate that when fathers are connected to their kids, they fare substantially better as they make the transition from childhood to adulthood.

Though they may not seem to act like it much of the time, dads, your kids need you to be involved in their lives! It all boils down to you intentionally investing in building relationships with your kids. Here are five ideas for reconnecting with your kids which you can begin implementing today!

1. Communicate with your kids. Sure, you don't always want to talk and neither do your kids. Yet, you cannot have a solid, growing relationship (with anyone!) without communicating. Find a time when distractions can be held to a minimum and have a conversation with your teenager. Don't just talk about what your interested in. Talk about anything and everything. Ask your kids about their interests, opinions and feelings. Ask open-ended questions that can't be answered yes or no. (Note: if you have not had a history of talking with your kids, getting started may seem a bit awkward to both you and your kids. Don't let this get in your way. Share with your kids what you are trying to do (build stronger relationships / reconnect) and start slowly with reasonable expectations. Just keep at it!)

2. Listen. Listening is the language of love. Through listening, you demonstrate that you value your kids. Many parents find it difficult to actively listen. Yet, when you take the time to really pay attention, show empathy and listen ? you are taking a key step in reconnecting with your kids. When kids know that their fathers will really listen (instead of immediately "correcting") they will be more willing to talk. As noted above, good communication results in stronger relationships.

SOURCE: Growthtrac Ministries

Jim Burns

Source: http://blackfatherhoodtoday.com/2012/08/5-things-a-father-can-do-today-to-reconnect-with-his-kids.html

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